Archive for November, 2008

Thanksgiving Weekend/Weekend Before DID at Our House

A post in pictures…

Caia wanted cereal for breakfast on Thursday morning. So, she helped herself…

Kenni and Caia at Gigi and PawPaw’s with their new table that they shoved back and forth across the floor…

Caia at Starbuck’s protesting the fact that I won’t let her have my White Chocolate Mocha…

Friday night waiting for Daddy to finish surveying DID scene at the church. We’re waiting in the car, and Kenni has hijacked the iPhone…

Tech/Ga. Game Day…Kenni and Caia helping Daddy make homemade pizzas. TECH WON!!! But that’s another story…

Caia watching Elf. She looks so grown-up here! Check out how she’s got her legs crossed…

Caia has now noticed I’m taking pictures of her and is following me around saying, “Eees!”

Kenni has found her Rudolph book and is going to pout until I read it to her. Don’t judge me…I did read it.

Caia “helping” Daddy with ornaments. We’re not sure how many went “missing” yet…

What my dining room looks like right now…Oh yeah. I’m “being real”. Those are boxes for the projectors for DID that were delivered, Christmas cards that have not been opened or addressed (like I have time for that right now), one drying maternity sweater (I don’t dry my sweaters in the dryer…bad things happen when I do), and tubs of Christmas decorations…

But, here’s my living room…finally decorated. I’ll just turn my head and avert my eyes from the rest of the disaster…

If you haven’t figured it out yet, Stephen bought some new batteries for my camera so now I can use it again. So, I will bore you to death with my pictures…

Well, there may not be much blogging this week. It is here. DID is finally upon us. 

Continue to pray for the show and for those involved…and for those who will be attending.

Conversations with McKenna

McKenna: CVS closes at night, because stores close at night.

Me: Well, actually…CVS stays open all night just in case you have an emergency and need something in the middle of the night.

McKenna: Yeah, like make-up.

Me: Uhhhh, sort of….

McKenna: You know, we should use some of our money and get some make-up for the kids in Africa’s mommies. They don’t have any. They could put it on their lips and eyes and stuff.

Me: McKenna, that’s very thoughtful of you. I’m happy  that you’re thinking of the kids in Africa.

McKenna: Yeah, we should get them food and some toys. And make up for their mommies…

Thanksgiving Eve at Our House

A conversation between the Parrises…

ME: So, how many dishwashers do you think are running tonight?

STEPHEN: Not really something I’m thinking about.

ME: I’m just saying. I think about these kind of things…

STEPHEN: Okayyyyy…..

(I feel like the thousands of homes running their dishwashers tonight really bonds us together as Americans. I’m just saying…)

Anyway, we actually put up the tree. It’s not decorated yet. That’s what we’re doing tomorrow while we watch the parade. 

The girls and I made Christmas ornaments to give to the grandmas tomorrow. This has been a tradition since Kenni’s first Thanksgiving. And it’s always a handprint craft. We’ve done reindeer, Santas, Christmas trees. I ran out of things to make handprints out of, so I ended up buying a pack of foam snowflakes to let them put their handprints on.

Here’s the finished product.

We’re also baking and cooking while the girls are in bed.

Here’s a Paula Deen pie. It has a brownie layer, a cream cheese layer, a chocolate chip layer, another brownie layer, and then it’s topped with pecans. When it’s served you drizzle it with Hot Fudge ice cream topping. (Yes, I just capitalized Hot Fudge. That’s how important I think it is.)

All in all, we have had some sweet moments today as a family. And I am so thankful for that. 

The girls and I ate popcorn and watched Charlie Brown Thanksgiving. (”You blockhead!” Great. Thanks for teaching my impressionable daughter that one, Lucy…)

Tomorrow, Daddy’s making homemade biscuits and we’re decorating the tree while we watch the parade. Then it’s off to Grandma’s and GiGi’s. Can’t wait!

Just Pray

I couldn’t think of a title this evening. Basically, that’s what I wanted to say…just pray.

Every year, during Dinner in December prep and production, we are hit hard with spiritual attacks. I don’t want to be too detailed so as not to give the enemy any accolades for what has happened. I would rather come out on the other side and say that God was victorious and saved the day! Because I know He will!

Now, I didn’t grow up in church so I don’t know alot of those Bible verses we were all supposed to be memorizing by heart, not that that’s an excuse now, but I’m saying that to give glory to God that He has brought verses to my mind throughout these past few days.

We are more than conquerors…

If God is for us, who can be against us…

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood…

If you think of it, as the production draws near, please pray for not just our family, but ALL the families involved in making this happen. 

And, if you happened to be at West Ridge this past Sunday and saw the cardboard testimonies, please pray for those people as well. The enemy would like to see nothing better than those who have taken a stand against him be taken down.

But God is our Helper. Our Rescuer. Our Comfort. And our Peace.

My heart is constantly having to be reminded to rest in that…

Friday Random Post With No Theme Whatsoever

So, here’s a picture of the “ball and chain” they hook me up to twice a week now.

And it spits out a long piece of paper with my “readings” on it that looks like this…

Is that not exciting? 

Here’s the funny thing…I’ve brought my book along with me to read while I’m doing the test, but it’s been so nice to lay there still, not chasing anyone around or rescuing items from the toilet or the trash, and to not have to speak to anyone…that I haven’t even opened it yet.

Today’s “THANK YOU FOR KEEPING MY KIDS” goes to my dear friend, Melissa! :) And poor Melissa kept them last week, too.

Speaking of Melissa, Stephen and I went with her and her husband Justin (I guess we’ll claim him as our friend too…) to the Ga. Tech game last night. We had a lot of fun, but froze our tails off! I don’t think I need to mention that Tech won…but I will! 

Melissa was so cold, she got the watered down Nesquik hot chocolate they were selling.

When I asked her how it was, she said,

It’s hot.

Nothing beats a Starbuck’s.

Here are some pics from the game. You’ll see none of the actual game. I like pics of people better than “stuff”.

I just noticed that the pictures that Melissa and I took are blurry, but the one Stephen took is fine. Must be a user error.

And Justin, ever the jokester, gave Melissa and I bunny ears, I see.

Well, to end my Friday Random Post, I will close by saying we had some fun family time at Stevi B’s and a trip to Target tonight.

The girls needed socks and Caia needed sippy cups, so why not kill a little time in Target?

We took them down the toy aisle, because picking things out of the toy catalog this year proved hazardous to the wallet.

Last year Kenni picked out three specific things she would like. And they were all reasonably priced, so that’s what she got. (Three gifts, Jesus got three gifts…yeah, I didn’t know that was our theme until Stephen told me THIS year..)

This year, Kenni picked out the FurReal Friends Pony ($268…ummm, no), the Hannah Montana Malibu Dream Home ($168…not including the furniture, dolls, and anything else that would make it fun….ummmm, noooo), and the Barbie Motorized Jeep (not the one for the dolls, the one for the kids…$300…ummmmmmmmm, NO!)

The trip to Target proved much more budget friendly. She even picked out toys that Caia might like. And some “boy toys” for when Little Dude gets here. 

Tomorrow, our goal is to put up the Parris Christmas tree. There should be some fun pictures of that, I’m sure!

Being Real…

Here’s the deal. Whenever anyone comes to watch our girls who hasn’t been to my house before, I panic.

Oh my gosh! I have to clean this place from top to bottom! What are they going to think?!

And you know what? I decided today, that it really is not a big deal…

(Stephen will be thrilled about this…) I realized…that this is OUR house. This is how WE live. This is REAL life with a 3 year old, a 16 month old, and a pregnant lady in the middle of the busiest season of our life.

When you walk into my house, here’s what you will find:

**Unfinished “home improvement projects”

**Tubs and bags of hand-me-downs shoved in my dining room corners waiting to go out to Warehouse of Hope and to the attic

**A bookshelf where the bottom two rows are designated for toys…toys with many pieces that fall off all the time

**Toys not on the shelf (we don’t have a playroom)

**A messy high chair

**Stacks of mail on the breakfast bar

**Stained kitchen chairs (fabric covered chairs are not the way to go if you plan on having small children)

**Fingerprints on the windows and on the TV (there were also crayon marks on it, but those have since been removed)

**A bathroom closet that has clothes and shoes all over the floor

**A laundry room that…well, there are no words for that laundry room

(I will say, in my defense here, I have no spare room or basement)

**Crumbs under the couch

**Laundry on the back of the chair

**A comforter that my child dragged off my bed and decided to use for a sleeping bag

I could go on and on. And on. But I won’t. Sure, I plan on mopping the floor tomorrow, but that’s about it at this point. And I’m only doing that because I haven’t done it in a really long time.

The point is…I’m being real. This is real life at our house. It’s not always pretty. It’s never really NEAT. But we love to laugh and have fun. We cook together, color together, play games together, watch movies together, and LIVE together.

And truth be told, I have walked into many a house where small children reside, and when I find that their home looks much like mine, I feel much more at ease. I specifically remember going to someone’s house once (I had never been there before and I hardly knew this person), but when I saw that they had laundry out and grocery papers on the stairs and toys scattered underfoot, I wanted to hug them! It made me feel so at home!!! 

One day I figure I’ll have the time for cleaning and straightening things the way I’d always hoped they could be. But for now, I have to rest in the fact that this is where I am in life right now.

Does that mean that I won’t have moments of panic every now and then when the house is a disaster? Oh, I’m sure I will. Let’s face it…the circumstances in our life right now are ripe for a messy and disorganized house.

I’ve had my moments of self-pity, too. Oh yes, I have. Especially in late pregnancy and right after the baby is born. Poor pitiful me… (just being honest again…)

But all too soon, this phase will be over.

And I’ll (probably) wish I had it back. :)

A Day in the Life…

I think I’ve done a “day in the life” post before, but it’s been awhile.

And today I started my twice weekly non-stress tests at the doctor, so thus begins a new chapter of “A Day in the Life” of the Parris family.

7:00 a.m.–Alarm goes off. (Stephen asked me the night before if 7:20 wasn’t “good enough”…but I insisted on 7:00. And I HATE getting up early. Don’t ask me how I did it when I was teaching…)

7:30 a.m.–I’m dressed and (mostly) ready. Awaken Kenni. She didn’t go to bed till nearly 11:00. (I know! We’re terrible parents! We had a DID rehearsal, and then when we got home she was so wound up that it took numerous attempts to get her to stay in her room.) She is NOT happy to be awake this early.

8:00 a.m.–Kenni is fed and “dressed”. It’s pajama day at school, so I took her out of her pajamas to put on…pajamas. And I resisted the urge to iron them. I even found a pair of bedroom slippers someone had passed onto her to go on her feet. I was way excited for her!

8:05 a.m.–Awaken Caia. She is not happy to be awake this early either.

8:36 a.m.–Finally out the door with Caia on my way to Aimee’s house to drop her off for the morning. Stephen is taking Kenni to preschool and praying that I’ll be done at the doctor in time to pick her up. We’ll see.

9:00 a.m.–Caia is secure at Aimee’s. Aimee gave me some muffins to go.

9:20 a.m.–I stop at Chick Fil A anyway. I think, I’ll get some orange juice and make sure this little guy moves around enough for the test.

9:30 a.m.–That was my appointment time. I’m still not there.

9:42 a.m.–I pull into the doctor’s office and sign in.

10:10 a.m.–They call me back and hook me up to the machine.

Basically, if you don’t know what the non-stress test is, they wrap a couple of monitors around your huge stomach…one that measure your “contractions” or “uterine activity” and the other that measures the baby’s heartbeat. They give you a little clicker and lay you on your side on the most uncomfortable table with a “pillow” that’s about as thick as…oh, I’d say…a sheet of paper. Then they tell you to click the button everytime you feel the baby move.

I was told at my last appointment that this should take about 20 minutes.

The nurse today said,

Okay. You’ll be here for about an hour. Have fun!

AN HOUR?! So, I said, “In that case, can you hand me my phone and my book?”

Someone pops their head in after 5 minutes or so, looks at my paper, and says,

Okay. Looks good. See you in a little while.

Then, they leave you alone in this room with the machine. Well, maybe this is God’s way of giving me some “alone time” for the next 10 or so weeks!!

10:56 a.m.–They finally take me off the monitor, put me in another waiting to wait on the mid-wife.

11:05 a.m.–Mid-wife is on call today and is at the hospital delivering a baby. So, they let me see the new doctor.

Wow. What can I say about this? Ummm, I’m pretty sure that I was older than her, and her answers to everything led me to believe that I knew more about having babies than she did.

I check out, and the receptionist asks me where my family is. Oooh…does that mean we’re that recognizable? Hmmmm…

I totally like the receptionist, though. She’s really nice.

She informs me that they might choose to send me to the hospital next week for the second NST because they are closed for Thanksgiving.

That should be fun, I guess. :)

I make it back in time to pick up the car seat from Stephen, pick Kenni up at school, and get Caia from Aimee’s.

Aimee has already fed Caia, which is really good because she was so ready for a nap when I brought her back in the house that she practically asked me for one.

Kenni and I ate lunch, and then she played on the computer a bit while I crashed.

I crashed hard, too.

Whew. Tuesdays are going to be exhausting, I can tell.

Caia wakes up. We have snack. We vacuum carpets, do some laundry, and begin Operation McKenna Room Sweep (aka Get Rid Of Everything We Don’t Need or Love So As To Make Room For A New Roommate…Little Sister…Soon…)

Took me about 30 minutes to clean out ONE SIDE of her closet. This resulted in two bags of trash, one bag of clothes to give away, and two bags of hand-me-downs for next summer.

Did I mention that was ONE SIDE of her closet?

Then we play and watch some Sesame Street while mommy starts dinner. (It was chili and cornbread. Mmmmm…)

While Mommy’s making dinner, Little Destructo pulls the internet cable from the wall and disconnects my internet, and then finds her sister’s yogurt and smears that all over herself.

Daddy comes home. We eat dinner.

Kenni says, 

I don’t like chili. I’m not eating chili. 

Fine. Eat your cornbread and drink your milk.

Baths, dinner clean-up, girls to bed.

Done. Only Kenni keeps coming out of her room asking for Madagascar toys, drinks, slippers, snacks…

And tomorrow, we start it over. Well, minus the doctor visit part. This time, we’ve got a playdate in Kennesaw.

I’m thinking of renting a house out there until the baby’s born.

Oh, and here’s some pics of the girls playing today. 

This is Kenni with her Pajama Day outfit. Can you tell that it’s also Laundry Day?

And here’s Caia…before she smeared yogurt on the back of my couch.

It’s okay, really.

Goes with the coffee my three year old spilled on the carpet. (My coffee, by the way, not hers…)

Fire Alarm Fun

Today when I arrived late for church (again!), there were no seats that I could get to without climbing my huge pregnant self over several bodies. It was a pretty packed house.

(Little sidebar here…I have mentioned before that one of my all-time pet peeves are the drivers on Sunday morning who tail me down 120, whip around me and 14 other cars, just so they can pull into the West Ridge parking lot. Come ON, people. And today was no exception…thank you, red truck who did that today AND screeched your tires at the stoplight when it turned green. I’m thinking you didn’t get into the service any faster than I did, but whatever…) 

Back to my story, so I head to over to the sound board where Stephen is sitting and tell him that I can’t find a seat. He says that’s okay…we’ll go sit back in the green room. 

Now I never sit back there during a service, but today proved to be an interesting morning to do that.

So, a few minutes into Brian’s message, the lights start flashing and we hear,

Attention! An emergency has been detected in the building! Please evacuate immediately! Do not use the elevators!

Or something close to that. I do know it said not to use the elevators…which I find amusing. There are no elevators in the building.

So, I look at Stephen who is as white as a ghost, shutting his laptop, and simply saying,

Noooooooo…..

I do as I’m told and “evacuate immediately” and figure I’ll head to Praiseland where I am sure Kenni is freaking out by now. She cannot stand loud, unfamiliar noises. And last year, during a DID rehearsal the fire alarm went off, and she flipped out. She still remembers the “night the firetrucks came to church”.

So, I head to the side doors where the Praiseland workers are (very efficiently, I might add) evacuating the children. They’re literally rolling the babies and toddlers out in cribs with five or six kids each in them! It was one of the funniest things I’ve ever seen! 

Caia’s just hanging out in one of the cribs with the other kiddos, so I think, “I need to find Kenni. She’s the one who’s probably having a hard time with this.”

I locate her class, and sure enough, there she is in the teacher’s arms with her head buried.

I finally get to her and she says to me,

This is the second time this has happened to me! I just want to go home!!

Told you she remembered the last time we had a fire alarm go off…

Everything calms back down, and they all go back in. But I thought the whole scene with the toddlers and babies in their cribs was so funny, that I had to snap a picture.

I caught THIS with my iPhone.

This is Caia getting knocked in the head with some baseball bat looking toy, Mrs. Lee trying to save her, and another little cutie peering over the side of the crib.

Caia’s fine, by the way, and this picture makes me laugh. Is that wrong?

To sum up, I will say that the Worship Arts team had nothing to do with the incident leading to mass evacuation. But I know who did.

And they feel really bad.

“The Number 2 Madagascar!!!”

That’s what Kenni calls Madagascar 2.

AND WE SAW IT!!! AT THE IMAX THEATER!! WITH GIGI AND PAWPAW!!

The girls had a blast at the movie. Okay, so Caia got antsy about 20 minutes from the end, but overall I thought she did really well.

Kenni was so excited that she literally was on the edge of her seat the first half hour, hugging her Happy Meal toys (the penguin and Marty the zebra!) close to her heart.

Did I LIKE the movie? Well, I thought the first was better, and there was some questionable content with Gloria and her new “boyfriend” and about sacrificing Melman to the volcano to make the “water gods” happy. But it went right over Kenni’s head, and I figured it would be a good idea to explain to her that there is only one God, and besides, all the other animals in the movie thought it was a silly idea anyway.

It was a great night, and everyone had lots of fun. I’m so glad we got to see it at the IMAX as well. Caia was especially enamored with the enormity of it when we first got there.

Then today, to top off our weekend of Parris Family Fun (which has been long overdue!), we decided to take the family to the new Ingles (that would be a grocery store) that opened up down the street. Can’t say we don’t go for cheap fun, right? (Hey, after spending $30 to see a movie on a big screen last night, cheap was the route we needed to take!)

We legitimately had to get groceries, and we figured this would be the best way to get it done and check out the new store. 

We even ate lunch at their salad bar/chicken/sandwich/fruit “cafe”. It was quite a hilarious scene to see us trying to get the girls and ourselves food….Kenni and Caia were melting down and trying to eat the fruit I had scooped out before it had been weighed and paid for. This just caused non-verbal Caia to get angry and start throwing her sippy cup out of the grocery cart… It was such a process!

Stephen kept saying, “Just laugh. Just laugh. That’s all we can do…”

Earlier when it seemed to take forever to get all four grumpy Parrises in the car (and my outdoor cat kept running indoors and under my bed), I told Stephen, “I am not letting Satan steal my joy today. I’m not. I’m just not.”

Tossing the Madagascar toys in the car, he says to me,

Just smile and wave, boys. Just smile and wave.

(If you know Madagascar, you get the joke.)

At any rate, we spent three hours and $120 at Ingles. We also sampled all of their free goodies too. We really shouldn’t have paid that much for our lunch when they had plenty for us to eat throughout the store.

But, overall, we were very impressed with the new store. And even tonight as we were eating dinner, Stephen said, 

It’s sad that I’m this excited over a new grocery store.

I say that no, it’s not sad. That store rocked. Kroger’s going down!

And….they double coupons. 

Do I really need to say anything more than that?

Break out the cheese

…cause I’m about to have a little whine.

When people ask me these days, “How are you?”…I have to stop and ask myself. Do they REALLY want to know?

Because the quandary would be: if I’m honest with them, I sound like a complainer. If I tell them I’m good, I’m not necessarily being all that honest…

My friend Melissa said that I should respond with, “I’m as good as can be expected.”

We visited the doctors today. And I say doctors because we saw both the perinatologist and the regular OB.

The perinatologist appt. went great, and I left on Cloud Nine. Baby was growing “better than average”, and in fact, according to his measurements, my due date is a week earlier than the original date of Jan. 31st. (I told you he was gonna come early. I know, I know…this doesn’t necessarily mean anything. I’ve had a couple of kids before…)

He weighed 3 lbs. 2 oz. and we were told to come back in five weeks.

Super!

Then we head over to the regular OB. Appointment goes well, and then she tells me…

It’s time to start coming in twice a week for the non-stress tests.

I JUST GOT USED TO THE IDEA OF COMING IN EVERY TWO WEEKS!!! 

But now, it’s twice a week till the end of the pregnancy. Even the doctor I saw today thought it was a little early. She said typically they wait till 32 weeks, but the note on my chart indicated it to be done throughout the third trimester.

I’m glad they are watching everything closely…but this is going to be some work.

The doctor’s office is 45 minutes away…and I have two kids. How accurate is a non-STRESS test going to be? (I know…it’s the baby’s stress not mine. But still….)

To top it off, I’ve reached that end-of-pregnancy grumpy, achy, nesting but too tired to do anything about it, stage.

You know it’s bad when you’re getting angry at the fictional people on TV.

Brooke Shields and her SUV/pregnant lady commercials irritate me…

Oh, your house looks perfect, and you have three kids?…

Really? Your mom drops by at the drop of a hat so you can go grocery shopping alone?…

You’re nine months pregnant, and you get to sit on the sofa with your feet propped on pillows and eat ice cream?…

I know. Don’t I sound terrible? I’m probably going to regret this post tomorrow, but tonight I’m feeling it. Really feeling it.

I do have a lot to be thankful for, though. I know that.

Despite everything, Little Dude looks great and there don’t appear to be any other problems. (They did a biophysical profile  on him today…measuring amniotic fluid, dopplering the cord’s blood flow, all that good stuff…and it all looked good.)

And…I have a working dishwasher now. Yes, that’s a good thing. Thanks to my friends Melissa and Justin who forced Stephen to take it home on Sunday….no more handwashing dishes. The first day it ran its first load of dishes in my house was a beautiful day, my friends.

I almost cried.