Archive for March, 2009

March 8th

Last summer, while sitting at the kitchen table, a date came to my mind.

March of 2009. Now, looking back I couldn’t recall exactly the date…until Stephen and I both looked at each a few days ago and said “it was the 8th”.

I couldn’t shake that date. It just kept coming back to me over and over again that night.

I told Stephen that he was probably going to think that I was nuts, and to be honest, I didn’t even really want to tell him. I thought that he was going to think I was bonkers.

After I told him, we both sort of forgot about it. Fall came and with it, all the issues that we began having with the pregnancy.

Jack was born, and still the date never came back to us.

Until a few days ago.

Lying in bed Saturday morning, I asked him if he remembered me telling him that date.

His eyes grew wide, and we both looked at each other and said, “The 8th”.

He pulled out his phone (if you know Stephen, you know it was already in his hand or his pocket). He looked up the date, and we knew…

That was the day that we made it “official” that we were moving to Charleston, South Carolina.

Yes. You read that right. Stephen and I will be leaving sometime this summer to join the River Church team with Todd Magouyrk. Stephen will be taking the job of Arts and Innovation Pastor, and we are very excited about it!

It is a bittersweet move for me, in a lot of ways. I have never lived anywhere but little ole Paulding County, Georgia. I’ve been at West Ridge since its beginning, and I have dear friends that  I will miss terribly. (It just means that they’ll all have to come and visit!)

But the call to join River Church was undeniable.

And looking back to last summer and that day in the kitchen when God impressed March 8th on my heart, God had been preparing my heart for this calling.

We have much to do get ready for our move, and we’ll appreciate your prayers as we make this journey. Stephen is starting a home page for us that I’ll link to once it’s done that you can go to for updates that are specific to our migration to Charleston. (Which, I might add, I have only just seen since we decided to move a few weeks ago…)

For now, here’s the link to the River Church site, and you can look up our family picture and story if you’re interested.

Now I must say, it took a LONG time and about 1400 shots to find one picture that looked semi-normal to put on the site. (NOTE: Never schedule a photo shoot for just before naptime…bad things will happen for all involved.)

But, for kicks and giggles, I thought I’d show you some of the pictures that DIDN’T make the cut…

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And some sweet pics of the babies…

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“Did You Hear Me?! I SAID…”

McKenna has entered a new phase in her four year old world.

And it’s wearing on me.

She’s always been very verbal…spouting off her colors at 14 months. I’m totally not kidding about that. While Stephen and I may have been the only ones who could actually understand what she was saying, she WAS in fact naming all of her colors. (And for the record, I will always credit Terri for teaching her the color “white”.)

Anyway…recently, her talking has become…quite literally…NON-STOP.

Just recently on a road trip that took 9 1/2 hours (it should’ve taken 5, but you add in a baby and a toddler and a preschooler, and well…we’re lucky that we made it home at all…), she talked the ENTIRE TIME.

I’m not kidding.

And here’s the clencher…she needs a response to EVERYTHING SHE SAYS.

If she says, “I saw a bird”, and I do not respond with “Yes”, “mmhmm”, or some variation thereof, she repeats herself.

If I still do not respond, she becomes indignant.

Did you HEAR ME?!?! I SAID….

Fortunately for me, I once taught public school Kindergarten. I have mastered the art of the “That’s nice” while having to focus on something else. (And yes, that can come back to bite you. Just ask me how many times I responded with “That’s nice” to a child who just told me that someone hit them/took their pencil/etc.)

Stephen has not acquired this skill. He’s still adjusting.

But tonight, as I was sweeping up potato chips (yes, Destructo Baby has been at it again…), I thought that really this was a good parallel of my relationship with God.

How often am I doing all the talking, pausing only for Him to respond to my requests/complaints/statements, and then becoming indignant when He is silent?

Maybe, if I were doing a little more listening and a little less talking…the possibilities could be endless.

Hmmmm…

“Wanna See My Trick?”

Are those words from a four year old EVER a good thing?

This morning, Kenni bounded into my room with that greeting.

Why, sure! Love to see the trick!

Then she adds,

It’s a butt trick.

Surely, I didn’t hear that correctly. I ask for clarification, but no…she said “butt trick”.

Uhhh, okay. Show me your trick. (please no poop, please no poop…)

Then…she MOONS me.

Isn’t this the kind of thing that Jack is supposed to do later?! Not my sweet, angelic (uhhh…welll…), hairbow-laden, pink pajama-ed little GIRL!!!

I’m in shock. Stephen’s rolling. And she’s offended.

She whips around to Stephen and says,

Daddy! She didn’t laugh!!

I tried to explain that I was laughing. It was just a, ummmm, quiet laugh.

And then I told her that she had BETTER not do that at school…

Two Months, Taggies, and Tantrums

I have no idea why I chose that title. Except to say that those three things were on my mind at the moment…

Jack turned two months on the 14th! Can’t believe it!

And why yes, I’d love to tell you all how big the little man is, but…I forgot to make his two month appt. till a few days ago and the best I could get was one for the 31st of this month.

He’s doing great on his Prevacid dose, and reflux is rarely an issue anymore. But the gas, however…oh, the gas…

He is so stinky!

TAGGIES…Have you seen these things? They are blankets and toys with tags sewn all around the edges.

Genius invention, in my opinion.

You know some mom invented those puppies!!!

Caia has a stuffed duck that we affectionately refer to as Duckie. Duckie is loved for many reasons, not the least of which is his tag. She goes to sleep with her fingers wrapped inside that tag…

I’m not sure what the comfort in that is, but if it floats her boat, that’s fine with me!

ANNNNNNDDDD..tantrums….

Ahh, yes. Caia has given us quite a few of late. As has her older sister.

Caia? We’re figuring it’s developmental, coupled with a little bit of good old fashioned teething (those fun two year molars, you know…)

Kenni? Well, part of it HAS to be a growth spurt. Today, she ate an entire bowl of oatmeal, a waffle, two entire plates of spaghetti, an apple, chocolate milk, and some applesauce bread.

Now, if you know Kenni, you know that is BIG NEWS. She is proof that a child can live on 24 calories a day usually.

As for other things around the Parris house, well…they have been exciting to say the least. More on that later! ;) NO. I AM NOT PREGNANT. Oh dear…

I’m still trying to get a grip on running a household with three. Heck, I’ll take getting a FINGER on it, rather than an entire grip…

Till next time, I leave you with some pictures from daily life in ParrisLand once again…

Kenni babysitting…

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Caia after I left her alone with a bowl of spaghetti

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And Jack laughing at his sister…

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Oh No, She Didn’t!

Oh, but yes she did.

I know every mom of a preschooler has to have one of these stories to tell.

Here’s mine…

We took the family to Arby’s after church on Sunday. McKenna was in good spirits, bouncing up and down in the booth while we waited for Daddy to bring us some grub.

There happened to be an elderly couple sitting next to us. And the man had, well…rather “prominent” ears. Just being honest.

McKenna looks over at him and says, rather loudly, I might add,

Well HE has funny looking ears.

I can only hope those funny looking ears weren’t working…

As for the rest of us around here, things are going well.

Jack’s had a couple of good nights where he’s slept 7-8 hours!! Of course, it didn’t last, and last night we were back to 5. But hey…I’ll take it. It’s an improvement.

I have also discovered the miracle of gripe water!

I’ve been calling it holy water. Is that wrong?

At any rate, I had read rave reviews on the internet about this stuff, so I sent Stephen out to the store to grab some. (I love our new Ingle’s, by the way. It had the coveted brand that I wanted!)

WARNING! Poop talk ahead!

Now, he hadn’t gone in 2 days, but within 15 minutes of giving him that stuff, he pooped. And that night…slept for 8 hours!!!

Everytime I give it to him when he’s grunting and moaning with gas (and boy! does he have some stinky gas!!! It’s unbelievable!!!), within minutes, he’s a much happier little kiddo. It’s beyond weird.

Do I recommend it? Oh, yes. Yes, I do. Get you some gripe water if you’ve got a gassy baby. No joke.

As for me, well..I’m doing well. Sleep has made me a better person overall, I would say. :)
Now, if only I could catch up on the blogging…